Dear biological mother or family member,
Updated: Oct 2, 2019
I hope this message finds you well. My guess that even thinking about a daughter or son that was given into adoption whether it be forced or by your own will may bring up some difficult thoughts or feelings. Please know this is natural and understandable as there are many reasons why a mother decides to put their child into adoption.
As an adoptee myself, I want you to know that many of us do not hold resentment towards you or your decision. Many of us just want to know where and who we come from and reconnect with our biological roots and identify. Knowing this information regardless of the circumstances can bring closure, wholeness, and a better understanding of ourselves.
Your decision to be open to looking for your son or daughter is a personal one and there is no judgement either way. My hope is to support you in the way that best suits you, whether it be getting access to an DNA test, or supporting you if we are able to connect with your son or daughter.
All information that is shared is confidential and would only be used to connect and search for your son or daughter. Thank your courage.
With love and light, Elena